Contentment =)

We never feel enough and always want more in our life, yet there is always give and take. 
We tend to forget that happiness actually doesn't come as a result of getting something or compare to others what we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have. 

Think positively and contented mind is the greatest blessing a person can enjoy in this world.

*Live happily and we'll find the surprise in our pocket*

Health is the greatest possession. Contentment is the greatest treasure. Confidence is the greatest friend. Non-being is the greatest joy.

Lao Tzu

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Dream Places to Visit ...

 

Greece - Santorini

 

 

Turkey - Cappadocia (hot air balloon)

 

Italy - Venice (The Grand Canal)

 

India - Agra (Taj Mahal)

 

 

 France - Paris (Eiffel Tower)

 

France - Paris (Louvre Museum)

 

Italy - Rome (Trevi Fountain)

 

Chile - Easter Island

 



EMOTIONAL MATURITY

This is an article i found in dumblittleman.com. Find it interesting and share to you all..

Emotional maturity is not something that is automatically given to someone when they turn 18. Emotional maturity is something that we must develop in our lives by knowing how to respond to situations in a mature and responsible manner.

Three factors that define emotional maturity are:

• Ability to Face Reality -- Acceptance
  We know that we need to stop smoking because it is not good for our health, but we don’t do it because we want to avoid having to face a difficult challenge in our lives. Many of us like to avoid difficulties and pretend that they don’t exist. It isn’t until we can face reality and accept the situation that is before us then we can mature. We have to stop denying that situations exist and instead move towards assessing the risks of situations and taking actions based on those risks.


• Ability to Relate Well With Others
  This is a big world, and we need to get along with others – even those that are different from us or have beliefs that differ from ours. All too often we look at others with a critical eye or let anger and frustrations interfere with our perceptions of others. We must learn to forgive others (and ourselves) and start making amends with people for what we have done wrong in the past. Instead of looking at people with a critical eye, look for the good inside them. Be compassionate, not critical.


• Willingness to be Honest with Ourselves
  We must be willing to do a self-appraisal of who we are and what we want our of life. Chances are that there are areas in your life that could use improvement. None of us is perfect. Sometimes change starts from within – and when you change, the world around you starts to change with you. We don’t have to be in control of everything in our life – sometimes we have to put our faith in a belief that things are going to work out. Being honest with ourselves can lead us to understand that some things in our life just aren’t worth worrying about.

So now it is your turn. What is your emotional maturity? Can you see yourself in the above statements or are there areas you want to improve upon? It’s never too late – whether you are 18 or 81 there are chances for you to increase your emotional maturity age.
Written by David B. Bohl of Slow Down Fast.

‘步步惊心’

从新看看自己的部落格，真的不行啦！应该post 一些开心激励的。

这阵子一直在追‘步步惊心’...真的很紧张！每晚至少要看上好几集才甘愿睡觉。虽然这部戏不新，但也算是去年大获好评，还登上了去年最热剧集宝座。每看一集，就期待下一集的故事，感觉自己快疯了，哈哈..
不过以连续剧来说，我觉得中国戏剧比以往要好很多倍。以前总觉得中国连续剧就是长气，拖泥带水的，怎么演都演不完。可现在，中国电视剧真的进步了好多！不说电视剧，中国电影更是不容忽视！像是‘让子弹飞’‘花木兰’‘画皮’‘风声’都是卖座的好电影。除了不一般的拍摄技巧，最重要的是故事有的是内涵，创意。

如果还没看过‘步步惊心’的，是时候去看看了。在戏里，我很赞同十三阿哥的话，‘在有些事，并没有对与错，只是大家站在的立场不同而以...’

Sad news

She is my cousin. We aren't close ... not even talked and meet much... but I know she's a friendly and sweet person. Everytime I saw her, there's a smile on her face.

Last week I saw in facebook, her sister post "shout her name.. wake her up" ... and soon i heard news about her.. first operation was not success and she's in a coma.. her family couldn't send her to singapore.. Doctor said her brain was swollen and the air pressure in flight would kill her... she had an operation last thursday ... and it's still not succeed. Eventually, they hire a Singapore specialist .. but sadly the doctor said it's late..

Feel sorry for her and her family... Let's chant and pray for her...
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Too many unpredicted ....misfortune can be happened around us.. so appreciate what we have now...

心静

心情烦躁的时候，念声阿弥陀佛；
诸事不顺的时候，念声阿弥陀佛；
心神不宁的时候，念声阿弥陀佛；
无法专心的时候，念声阿弥陀佛；
无法忘掉的时候，就念声阿弥陀佛吧。

保佑我天天都过得开开心心！
要比自己想象中的坚强！:) 笑

方大同-

好久沒有更新自己的部落格了！現在的生活除了工作還是工作。偶爾想放個假去哪裡走走... 可是好像..機票和我沒什緣分哪～ 那天在車裡聽到方大同的新歌，哇！心情都愉快起來了！他真的是太有才啦！
還記得第一次認識方大同是從電視的排行榜裡播出一首叫做 《夠不夠》的歌，雖然MTV 不是怎麼好看..但是這是我第一次...也是有史以來聽過最最最R&B的歌手！那時候的他，已經出了第二張專輯了！後來才知道第一個專輯 《soul boy》裡《女人》 和 《總結》 是我一直想找的歌！之前常常在電台聽到，卻不知是這麼厲害的一位歌手！後來他還翻唱好多經典歌曲 ...其中有 關菊英的《狂潮》，王菲的《紅豆》 ， 阿妹的《記得》，Frank Sinatra 的 《Moon River》，還有Ray Charles 的《Gorgia on my mind》！超好聽的！除了因為這些都是經典名曲，他都把那些歌唱出了自己的味道..雖然他不是很‘靚仔’ ...但是他唱起歌來卻比一般的靚仔還靚仔！真的會愛上他的..哈哈哈·～如果有機會，一定要去看看他的演唱會！

分享他最新的歌 ，是很可愛的MTV 喔！
BB 88~


方大同 - BB88 
作曲：方大同 填词：方大同 
我走一步 你就翻脸 
我给你的爱 你说不够甜 
最会装酷 多么爱演 
妈妈曾经说过不要被骗 
说LOVE OH LOVE 这是什么 
OH GIRL 你嘴边的话算什么 
LOVE OH LOVE 你怎么了 
不不不不不 爱不是赢或输 
oh BABY 别太坏 oh BABY 别破坏 
别总是偷偷摸摸 让我想哭 
要我吃醋 你让我发怒 
不乖乖baby 就要说88 
baby 88  baby 88...
我走一步 被你抢先 
我对你好 但你不给我面 
每时每刻都在家里做脸 
也许有一天有谁来找你代言 
说LOVE OH LOVE 这是什么 
OH GIRL 你嘴边的话算什么 
LOVE OH LOVE 你怎么了 
不不不不不 爱不是赢或输 
BABY 别太坏 BABY 别破坏 
别总是偷偷摸摸 让我想哭 
要我吃醋 你让我发怒 
不乖乖baby 就要说88 
是什么不妥 
是谁闯了祸 
请你饶了我 
突然间又靠着我 
再一拳过来 
冷战一个多礼拜 
最后还是要我来猜测 
你的感受 是我的搏斗 MY DARLIN 
能何时换来一个吻 
CAN YOU TELL ME NOW 
TELL ME TELL ME TELL ME NOW 
oh BABY 别太坏 oh BABY 别破坏 
别总是偷偷摸摸 让我想哭 
要我吃醋 你让我发怒 
不乖乖baby 就要说88 
oh BABY 别太坏 oh BABY 别破坏 
别总是偷偷摸摸 让我想哭 
要我吃醋 你让我发怒 
不乖乖baby 就要说88 
baby 88  baby 88...